Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Messages From an Unknown Chinese Mother by Xinran

Xinran was born and raised in China and worked there as a reporter for a radio station.  The book begins, "A Book Written for Adoptive Daughters."  Xinran begins,
"It took a long time for me to summon the courage to relive the personal memories and experiences of my life as a reporter in China." Page 1
China has a strict one child per family rule, due to over-population.  If you are caught with having more that 1 child, there are deep penalties, including losing your job.  Xinran  goes on to recount numerous stories of mothers forced to give up their daughters  because their parents in-law insist that they have a boy. 
For a very long time, China would not allow adoptions of children from outside the country.  Many of the stories Xinran heard and some that she even witnessed, firsthand were gruesome.  Parts of this book was shocking to read.
"Suddenly, I thought I heard a slight movement in the slops pail behind me, and automatically glanced toward it. I felt ice in my blood. To my absolute horror, I saw a tiny foot poking out of the pail. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. Then the tiny foot twitched! It wasn’t possible. The midwife must have dropped that tiny baby alive into the slop pail!" Page 92
There were other stories of female babies being abandoned and left to die.  There were some orphanages but they were all very poor.
"The children were just left to cry all day. She mostly fed them on rice gruel, and kept them clean by sluicing the urine and excrement off the mat with cold water. By night she slept squeezed onto the mat with the babies, at the mercy of the mosquitoes just as they were."  Page 244
Things improved, some when adoption was opened up to families from other countries.  Though mothers don't know where their daughters live, they did give messages to Xinran to pass on to adopted daughters, her main motivation for writing this book.
I found these true stories to be raw, heart rendering, and shocking.  Xinran writes beautifully but opens the child issue in China up for the entire world to see.  If you don't know what is happening in China, even to this day, read this book.  If you know what is happening read this book and learn more.
4/5
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Monday, March 28, 2011

Mailbox Monday

MailBox Monday now has it's very own blog, Mailbox Monday.  It is also on tour and is being hosted by I'm Booking It in March.

I received these books in my mailbox:
 I won this from Linda Weaver Clarke. Thanks Linda and author, Kitty Gogins!











 Sourcebooks, Inc.had another one of their fabulous deals!  I got this ebook for $.99.









I got this ebook over at Netgalley.com on Other Press. Marg over at The Adventures of an Intrepid Reader gave this book such a glowing review, I couldn't resist.

The Widest Heart by Malka Drucker

John of The Book Mine Set reviewed The Wildest Heart back in August and got me really interested in reading it.  It's been on my TBR since then.

Malka Drucker is a Rabbi, besides an author.  In fact, she was mentioned in an article on the CBC Website as a pro-gay rights Rabbi.  Good for her for supporting an important human rights issue! (Now you know my opinion on gay rights).

The Wildest Things opens with an unknown narrator, reflecting on an unlikely friendship she had in high school.  The first day in Spanish class was where she first saw Marcia, in fact they were in every class together that semester.  

Marcia was a over weight girl that the narrator would never dream of hanging out with.  However, as she got to know her, she realized that they had a lot in common and Marcia had a great sense of humor.  They became best friends.
" We were an unlikely pair, I, cynical and proud of my perpetual gloom,Marcia, seemingly sunny and easy-going. But we immediately discovered how alike we were. We both loved reading, we hated cheerleaders, and thought a native speaker should teach Spanish. "I don't want to speak Spanish with Applegate's Iowa accent," Marcia wailed."
Eventually, like most high school friendships, ended.  As the narrator reflects back on the friendship and eventual end, the reader can sense the guilt that she carries about it.  The writing was beautiful and lyrical!  I didn't want this story to end.  Highly recommended! You can read it here.

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Sunday, March 27, 2011

Vegan Macaroni and Cheese

There are lots of vegetarians who have thought about going vegan but the hardest part for most is giving up cheese.  There is a new product on the market that has made it so much easier to give up real cheese.  It is a cheese substitute called Diaya.  It comes in Cheddar , Italian, and coming soon, Pepper Jack.  It melts, stretches, and tastes just like the real thing.  Honest, I have fooled friends with it!  It's also safe for people with lactose intolerance.

With Diaya, I now make a more traditional baked mac and cheese.  It is hubby's favorite.

Here's my recipe:

1 lb Dry Macaroni or small shells, cooked
2 Cups Hot soy milk, almond milk, or substitute of your choice
4 T. Earth Balance (or other vegan margarine)
4 T. Flour
1/4 t. Salt
1/8 t. Pepper
2 Cups Diaya Cheddar Cheese

Preheat oven to 400 F.  
Scald the milk.  Melt the Earth Balance in a saucepan over low heat.  Add flour and stir constantly until it turns one shade darker.  Whisk in the hot milk gradually and cook siring constantly, until it thickens.  Add the Diaya and stir until smooth and melted.  
Combine with the cooked pasta.
Put mixture in a sprayed or oiled casserole dish.  You can sprinkle a bit of Diaya on top if you like.  Then heat in the preheated oven for 15 minutes.  Enjoy!


Thursday, March 24, 2011

Elizabeth Chadwick and the Magna Carta

I recently read Elizabeth Chadwick's To Defy a King and absolutely adored it.  See my review here.  Of course, when I was offered the chance to have Ms. Chadwick as a guest at So Many Precious Books, So Little Time, I jumped!

Without further ado, please welcome Elizabeth Chadwick!

Thank you so much for inviting me as a guest on your blog. I’m delighted to be here.

To Defy A King is in part a novel about what happens when royal tyranny goes too far.  Mahelt Marshal, a young heiress is caught up in an escalating dispute between the English barons and King John.  Her father has been specifically singled out by him, and her brothers are taken hostage. Mahelt’s marriage family is seriously affected too, not least because they become her protectors.
One of the major, history changing documents to come out of the wider scope of this dispute between King John and  his senior lords was the Magna Carta.

King John and the Magna Carta.

‘John by the grace of God, King of England, lord of Ireland, Duke of Normandy and Aquitaine and Count of Anjou, to the Archbishops, Bishops, Abbots, Earls, barons, justiciars, foresters, sheriffs, stewards, servants and to all his bailiffs and liege subjects, greetings.’

This is the opening salutation of the Magna Carta, signed by King John at Runnymede (a meadow between Windsor and Staines)  on the 15th of June 1215, and known in its day as ‘The Great Charter of English Liberties.’

After several days of negotiation between the King and his rebellious barons, John acceded to their demands and agreed to remedy 49 specific grievances set before him.  This particular document was known as the Articles of the Barons.  From this was drafted the Magna Carta and copies were sent far and wide across the country.
Magna Carta is one of the most important documents in English history and its clauses have had their part to play in constitutions around the world, notably the American one.  It underlines the Declaration of Human Rights.

Four copies still survive today, but at the outset, when it was sent around England, it has been estimated that there were as many as forty.

Originally, Magna Carta was a list of grievances made by a group of barons in revolt against King John.  Many of these claims were driven by purely aristocratic concerns.  For example, one clause says ‘Heirs shall be married without disparagement with due notice given to the next of kin.’  This clause came about because of King John’s habit of rewarding his mercenaries, often men of lowly birth, with wealthy heiresses or widows.  The families of the women involved greatly resented this and viewed it as an insult to their family bloodline.   Another clause was that John’s demands for military service abroad  should not exceed the legal requirement. Several times John had tried to make his barons perform military service beyond that which they legally owed, and had turned on them when they declined.

Despite the grievances being aristocratic concerns, the Magna Carta nevertheless brought ordinary men within its enclosure, specifically with clauses 39 and 40, which are still enshrined in constitutions today. ‘No freeman shall be taken, imprisoned or disseised or exiled or in any way destroyed, nor will we go upon him, nor seize upon him, except by the lawful judgement of his peers and by the law of the land. And:‘To no one will we sell, to no one will we refuse or delay justice.’

That these clauses were felt to be necessary, and that the barons felt the King needed to be brought to sign a charter encapsulating them, says a great deal about  King John’s personality and manner of government.

The Magna Carta was not actually the first charter of its kind to be issued.  Kings as far back as Anglo Saxon times had issued voluntary charters  as diplomatic exercises, swearing to govern wisely and well and see justice done to all.  When the barons came to work on something to bind John, they looked back to these charters, but specifically to ones issued by Norman kings following in the Anglo Saxon tradition.  They took the one issued by John’s great grandfather Henry I, who had based his own on the charter of his brother William Rufus.  So for example, this clause is part of Henry’s charter.

3. And if any of my barons or other men should wish to give his daughter, sister, niece, or kinswoman in marriage, let him speak with me about it; but I will neither take anything from him for this permission nor prevent his giving her unless he should be minded to join her to my enemy. And if, upon the death of a baron or other of my men, a daughter is left as heir, I will give her with her land by the advice of my barons. And if, on the death of her husband, the wife is left and without children, she shall have her dowry and right of marriage, and I will not give her to a husband unless according to her will.  The full text can be read here. http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/source/hcoronation.html

The fundamental difference between the older charters and the Magna Carta of John’s reign is that the earlier ones were issued voluntarily, and Magna Carta was not.  It also goes so much further.  It’s a document by the will of the barons, not by the will of the King.  Hugh Bigod, the hero of To Defy A King was one of the lords involved (along with his father) in drafting the terms of Magna Carta.  They were both highly accomplished lawyers.  William Marshal, Earl of Pembroke and father of my heroine Mahelt Marshal, was also part of the committee, although acting as a spokesman for John.  Together with the  members of the baronial representatives, he stands today in the UK’s House of Lords and is commemorated by a Pugin statue.

Immediately John had signed the Magna Carta, he reneged on the deal, declaring that it was invalid because he had been made to put his seal to it under duress, and he appealed to the pope to absolve him of the promises he had made.   As far as he was concerned, he was being put in a cage and denied the will to govern as a king properly should. 

Following his denial, the country was engulfed in civil war.  John died in October of the following year and William Marshal was appointed regent.  One of the first things he did was to reissue Magna Carta  in an attempt to rally everyone behind him.  Initially the results were modest, but gradually the country came round. The charter was reissued with revisions in 1216/17, 1225 and 1297.  Clauses were still in use in England until 1969 – that’s well within living memory!
The Magna Carta was born out of baronial feelings of alienation and a need to bring a tyrant king to order. They did not succeed at the outset,  but in creating the document, their efforts left a legacy that still resonates around the world today in ways that its founders probably never envisaged.  It truly was and is the Great Charter.

The full set of clauses can be read here:

About Elizabeth Chadwick:

Best selling historical novelist Elizabeth Chadwick won a Betty Trask Award for her first novel The Wild Hunt. She has been shortlisted for the UK's mainstream Best Romantic Novel of the Year Award 4 times and longlisted twice. Her novel The Scarlet Lion about the great William Marshal and his wife Isabelle de Clare, has been selected by Richard Lee, founder of the Historical Novel Society as one of the landmark historical novels of the last ten years. 

When not at her desk, she can be found taking long walks with the dog, baking cakes, reading books (of course!) exploring ruins, listening to various brands of rock and metal music, and occasionally slaving over a steaming cauldron with re-enactment society Regia Anglorum.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Teaser Tuesday

The book:  House Arrest by Ellen Meeropol

I have two quotes to share:
"I tried to get out of the assignment.  Prenatal visits to a prisoner?  Okay, house arrest, same difference." Emily- Page 11
"The morning after last year's solstice, the family had searched for the toddlers in the blowing, drifting snow.  All day they hunted and the next and the next, taking turns staying with the twins." Pippa- Page 27

Monday, March 21, 2011

Maibox Monday

MailBox Monday now has it's very own blog, Mailbox Monday.  It is also on tour and is being hosted by I'm Booking It in March.

I received this book in my mailbox:

The author of Deadly, Julie Chibbaro held a giveaway for this book and I won.  It sounded too good to pass up.  Here's the description:

A mysterious outbreak of typhoid fever is sweeping New York.
Could the city’s future rest with its most unlikely scientist? 

If Prudence Galewski is ever going to get out of Mrs. Browning’s esteemed School for Girls, she must demonstrate her refinement and charm by securing a job appropriate for a young lady. But Prudence isn’t like the other girls. She is fascinated by how the human body works and why it fails. 

With a stroke of luck, she lands a position in a laboratory, where she is swept into an investigation of the fever bound to change medical history. Prudence quickly learns that an inquiry of this proportion is not confined to the lab. From ritzy mansions to shady bars and rundown tenements, she explores every potential cause of the disease. But there’s no answer in sight—until the volatile Mary Mallon emerges. Dubbed “Typhoid Mary” by the press, Mary is an Irish immigrant who has worked as a cook in every home the fever has ravaged. Strangely, though, she hasn’t been sick a day in her life. Is the accusation against her an act of discrimination? Or is she the first clue in a new scientific discovery?

Prudence is determined to find out. In a time when science is for men, she’ll have to prove to the city, and to herself, that she can help solve one of the greatest medical mysteries of the twentieth century.
The Booklounge.ca was holding a giveaway for this book.  I wasn't sure if I really wanted to read it or not but I have a friend that I think would love to have it so I entered and won.  I'll probably give it to her first and then perhaps, take a crack at it.  I am almost ashamed to admit it, but when I was  very young, I loved David Cassidy, so this book would be pure nostalgia for me.
This is yet another book that I didn't request, that ended up in my mailbox.  It seems that St. Martin's Press is automatically sending me all of their newly released historical fiction, automatically. 

On the one hand, it is fun to receive surprises in the mail but on the other, I wish they would ask me if I am interested first.  The Silver Eagle is a sequel to The Forgotten Legion.  I haven't read the first book and the description of this book doesn't really speak to me.  I would hate for a book to go to waste, so I will have to find a home for it.  Perhaps my public library.


The Model Millionaire: A Note of Admiration by Oscar Wilde


I read the title short story from The Model Millionaire Stories by Oscar Wilde this weekend.  

It starts out like this,
"Unless one is wealth there is no use in being a charming fellow.  Romance is the privilege of the rich, not the profession of the unemployed.  The poor should be practical and prosaic.  It is better to have a permanent income than to be fascinating.  These are the great truths of modern life which Hugh Erskine never realized."
Hugh's aunt gave him $200 per year to live on.  He was in love with Laura Merton, but her father would not allow them to marry because Hugh was poor.  He told Hugh to go out into the world and make $10,000 and then he would allow the two to marry.

One day Hugh decided to go visit his friend Alan Trevor, an artist.  Alan was in the middle of painting a portrait of an old street person.  His model wore clothes with layers or dirt and tatters and Hugh felt sorry for him.  He asked Alan how much he paid his models versus how much he could get for a finished portrait.  Hugh felt the a model should make a percentage of what the artist makes, and the two friend debated this.  

Later Alan went out of the room and Hugh felt around in his pocket to see what money he had in it.
"Poor old man fellow," he thought to himself, "he wants it more than I do, but it means no *hansoms for a fortnight."  (*I looked it up, hansom is a cab that was designed and patented in 1834.)

Hugh gave the man a sovereign. 

Can you guess what happened later in the story.  I did, but enjoyed the story nun-the-less.  I just love Wilde's social commentary, wit, and writing.  This is another recommended Oscar Wilde story.

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Sunday, March 20, 2011

Winter Vegetable Stew With Moroccan Flavors

Awhile ago, I downloaded an new cookbook to review from Net Galley, Fresh and Fast Vegetarian: Recipes That Make the Meal..  I will be reviewing the cookbook soon.  Tonight I made one of the recipes in it, Winter Vegetable Stew With Moroccan Flavors.

On most weekends I prepare a menu and grocery list for the upcoming week's meals.  This weekend, Bill did the grocery shopping.  However, he mistook watercress for cilantro.  LOL!  I didn't discover this until I went into the refrigerator to get the cilantro and  thought to myself, "this is funny looking cilantro."  I tasted it and realized it was watercress.  Sometimes little things like this happen when Bill does the shopping.  Oh well, I through the watercress into the stew.

I also used a potato instead of a turnip and parsnip, which is an option mentioned in the recipe.  The winter squash of choice was also in the recipe and I used an acorn squash for that.  I decided to roast the squash first because it's easier to peel.  I did this earlier in the day, so I could throw dinner together quickly later.  However, while trying to cut the squash in half, I got into an fight with it and it won! 

My finger was cut, pretty deep. The stew almost became non-vegetarian.  LOL!   I drove to a walk-in clinic and the doctor debate giving it stitches but, much to my relief, he used surgical tape to pull it together instead.  He told me not to get it wet and not to bend it.  So, later I ended up finishing preparing dinner with a rubber glove on my hand.  I am not typing this post without my right pointer finger.

I served the stew over cooked millet, instead of couscous.  It turned out pretty good despite the roadblocks. 

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Winners: Treasure Me by Robyn DeHart

Thanks to Anna Balasi of Forever Romance for making this giveaway possible. 


The winners are:
Danielle
Elaing
Shannon (already won)
Cheryl (Already Won)
Lady Q

Congratulations!  Please respond to my email within 2 days.


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